A brand new Final Fantasy 14 Drama is here! This time the hardcore FFXIV raider Sfia made a very dumb post on X (formerly known as Twitter) and got exposed for the things he did in the past to women.
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I just follow xenos for his reacts , but this drama is a bit "dumb" , woman shouldn't be treated badly in a any situations (raiding) but what does that has to do with the fact those woman saying he cheated with X or Y aren't they all adults? What does that have to do with the game? If the community in high raiding is so shitty towards woman why don't they make a all woman team shouldn't that make it more toxic free?
As someone who has never been able to have a girlfriend, knowing that people cheat when they have one is insane to me
This HAS to be taken with a grain of salt and just allegations since I do NOT have any evidence. You can choose to believe my words or not. I DO NOT have twitter so I can't talk to xeems privately. I was a victim of Sfia back in SB. Not a big victim , but to make the story short he coerced me to talk to him in a +18 manner in voice call. I was very uncomfortable but given how young I was ( I was still 18+ so nothing illegal) I thought that the clout he gave me was enough to look past it.
I since have moved past this but I only have come out because this video proves that Sfia has not changed alongside the people he keeps close. I haven't followed Elysium/Radiance much ever since, so I wasn't made aware of many of these things. I do have to say I did find out later on of what I experience that Sfia has/had a SO.
I think anyone that raided on any capacity beyond casual statics has stories about toxic raiders. (Hell, I'll bet I'm someone's toxic story somewhere out there) Those interactions are what made me appreciate my final static (Banana) so much and I did regret having to step down when I did. (Covid wrecked my work schedule, couldn't make raid times anymore) The lack of drama was a breath of fresh air and I can honestly say the chill atmosphere prompted me to play better.
the funniest part about this drama is that it would of never existed if he didnt tweet that.
sooo every ff player is just a pedo/rapist…?
Yea xenos and arthars can get bent
content draught is hitting hard… whenever there is nothing to do ingame, they all start chatting on twitter
way to go on twitter and have one of the most utterly retarded takes ever dude. they're beating your ass in the QRTs.
This is specific to pc raiders only. It goes beyond just this bs though, as pc raiders will typically say no to anyone that isn't also a pc raider. I'll enjoy clearing raids without any technology[Mods/HACKS/CHEATs] on console. Until day 1 raiders can truthfully say the same thing, their opinions, and anything else they have to say about being a raider, or gamer, is as meaningful and as useful as testicles on the bottom of your feet in a room made entirely out of Legos.
Sfia was pals with Rich Campbell. Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are.
Having burned a whole static worth of women, and some of them even start dating each other, is crazy
Yeah, this is why you don't play games (of any kind) with women online. The guy is invariably going to get dragged and roasted in a very public manner. You're just entertainment in the making. It's always the exact same pattern of behaviors from both sides ending in the expected struggle session outcome. The sexes cannot get along.
Curt Island
It makes me so mad to see that creature Bizu virtue signal in the replies. Every time I see her name it twists my stomach. Back in storm blood I was 16 years old and she sexually harassed me frequently. Oversharing her and her s/o's sexual history, how she "discovered" her sexuality, calling me a twink, trying to share the original nude mod and screen sharing it to us with no regard for anyone else and their consent. Some of the most vile messages I've ever received. I've wondered if I should go dig it all up and do something with them but I don't want that spotlight and don't know how I'd handle that honestly. It's a frustrating thing seeing her around all the time saying moral highroady shit but I experienced something else completely.
This drama has stirred up the usual swarm of man haters now lmao, Sfia is a bad guy so all men are bad guys blah blah blah, I seen Rinny in like 30 different twitter threads all over this drama and almost every post is some form of "men bad" sorry bro but that shits fucky mentality too, I aint got shit to do with Lionel how he treated her or RN cause im also a Man who plays FF.
Sfia' brain is a smooth as Xeno's bald head xdx
I just assumed so few women raided because their boobies keep getting in the way and ruins their uptime
Man, that shit got personal.
Twitter gets pissed off at anything, keep making whatever content you want this shit is entertaining.
I love that Twitter is mad you're covering this
They're taking the eyes off of the people that are an issue.
Bro lacks some obvious social skills and a complete lack of self-awareness.
Extremely appreciative of having Xeno in the space. <3 <3 <3
Personally I don't care who or what you are when we game together. The only time I'm going to have an issue is when goodyear blimp sized egos or crippling narcissism is involved. This goes for men and women. Too many people in the "top brackets" of 14 have this CoD pro mindset of being untouchable and holier than thou.
Yeah no. Believe woman no matter if there’s proof or not. 95% of the time they can’t get it, it’s ignored or it’s illegal to record someone without permission along with various other ways the law is against women. Get bent, grow up and actually LISTEN to women and minorities.
So cool of you to make videos profiting off the “drama” while completely ignoring that your lead chat mod is just as bad as Sfia, but you’d rather sweep it under the rug.
Your comment on twitter that no one should believe woman without proof is disgusting. I hope every woman in your life reads that, just so they can tell you how gross it is.
comments on videos about subjects like this always make me a little sad because literally everyone would benefit from reflecting on their own behaviors and biases. i can admit i used to be the man-hating flavor of feminist, but the systemic issues that culminate in this particular issue (competitive gaming) are systemic issues that hurt everyone in the long run.
i don't think most men in competitive gaming actively and aggressively hate women (though there are exceptions lol). but i do think that men in gaming spaces often treat women differently. and this doesn't mean they're doing it intentionally or maliciously and certainly doesn't mean they're irredeemable assholes — but there's no harm in reflecting on it. you just gotta be willing to ask yourself the kind of questions sfia should have asked himself before posting that tweet lmao.
how does some1 living down under for years get so many girlfriends? are they all online only relationships or what
The most frustrating and annoying parts of this whole debacle, and all the ones before it, and all the ones in the future, are the losers who simply want to use events like assault and abuse as a weapon against other people. And I include people like Katie Ward in that sentiment. Blindly, even maliciously mischaracterizing the words that people type out as an excuse to be angry online to advance their own interests. It's not about shining a light on these things, it's not about protecting past, current, and future victims. It's about being mad and wanting other people to be mad.
It's the same shit as Pyro leading his crusade against Zepla when she was playing that Harry Potter game. You don't give a fuck about the victims, you do nothing to help them or protect them, nothing to advocate for them, no charities or gofundmes, no resources to help people being abused, but you sure as FUCK are chomping at the bit to be angry on their behalf online and making sure that everyone sees it. The reality is you don't actually care, but making ridiculous tweets and comments tells your brain that you are a crusader for the victims.
For the record I am a 40 year old white, straight man, I've been molested and abused on more than one occasion, and I'm currently the victim of an abusive marriage. Do you believe me?
I never tell people I’m a woman irl. I never do voice chat on discord. I just play.
The more FFXIV creators I watch the more I realize the bad seeds are qute a lot, actually. As "toxic" or "rude" they may seem on the surface, Xeno and Arthars are among the realest dudes in the community. I'll just follow them and their teams for world prog, it seems almost every other group has those troubled individuals. 💀
Thank you for giving me something to listen to on the road. Lul
There are some men that use high-end, time consuming content in social games as a compensation mechanic for low self-esteem and inability to create and sustain relationships. MMOs are designed to be zero-sum and thus with enough effort you'll succeed, unlike in the real world where you can try your hardest but the world still isn't going to give you a fair shot. So you have men that are very competitive in this one small aspect in their lives that give them a virtual sense of accomplishment that they can't get anywhere else, which potentially feeds into itself as a cycle of failure when they abandon efforts in real life that could improve their situation.
So these people who experienced negativity in the real world, partly due to their own social inability, tend to also don't know how to deal with women, and usually take one of two extreme responses:
1. being sexist to women, because the presence of one disrupts their flimsy narrative of elite gamer who doesn't need women, when they actually long for companionship but fail to find one due to glaring personality issues;
2. being creepy with women, because they lack the social graces or are overly sensitive, but with the shield of anonymity and the nature of parasocial online relationships, they can act out on socially unacceptable behaviour with minimal risk of being called out, because of the isolation and delay online.
It's not a 100% with men of course, you'll have well-adjusted individuals with healthy social lives as well, but competitive content will always draw in more toxic people, especially when recruitment doesn't filter based on personality. The only thing you can do is be prepared to cut your losses, don't give in to the sunk cost fallacy or thinking that the drama is worth it if you make progress in the game. The pros are not worth the cons, you'll be suffering mentally far longer than whatever achievement you got, and have the memory tainted by unhinged people.