18 thoughts on “My Experience With FFXIV Elitism in TOP”
Dice Arisugawa is well known on Crystal for being an abusive toxic piece of shit who leeches off cohealers who actually know how to heal ultimate lmao. Anyone who's healed with him in PF knows how bad he is at any healing job. If he isn't allowed to plant and only cast DPS spells, he's straight up useless. Sorry you got caught up in all that BS but you've dodged a bullet by getting kicked tbh
Well you said it yourself, it's better to play with friends. It really sucks to be kicked out especially over something unfair like this, but this is just how it is, find better players to play with.
My suggestion to you is to try to be a bit more assertive in the future, don't just cave in when you feel like you're being gaslit into thinking you're in the wrong. Don't put people who say they've played this game for years on pedestal, especially that applies to content creators, it means nothing. Have some self-worth, I know it sucks but it happens, doesn't mean you should blame yourself.
Truth is, HC raiding is filled with people with huge ego issues, which makes communication hard. It's so easy to offend someone by trying to point out mistakes and yes expect your logs to be picked apart in response. An experience like this just means you've stumbled upon the wrong group, try a new one, make contacts with people you especially enjoyed raiding with and with time you can assemble your own group that does HC hours but where you can talk about issues without causing drama.
Best of luck and don't let small setbacks like this hinder your love for raiding.
She probably just compared her logs to yours and came to the conclusion that you were not worth listening to. Which would not surprise me since all of this happened in two days meaning that she never actually gave you a chance. Anyways, it just shows a certain level of narcissism that I don't even want to be close to personally.
Don't let it discourage you from doing more HC raiding, we both know that there are good groups that would love to have you. Also, the static leader decided to keep the healer with trash tier communication skills & ego the size of nidhogg's nut sack so they're most likely gonna have even more problems like this one coming their way.
Keep your head up brother and don't let these people bring you down.
for a healer who cares so much about logs, they have a suspicious lack of healer logged kills in DSR, tryna talk about optimal healer playstyle in a current content ult
bros really need that perfect parse to show off to the bots in chat, thats absolutely wild. I didn't even know "active uptime" was a thing, people really be making up dumb ass behaviors and terms to justify their parse numbers.
Hey, I'm sorry you went through this type of experience. I don't know if I speak from a position of privilege, but what you went through definitely does not sound like a normal functioning hardcore prog group: I promise it's not a constant revolving door with people inspecting your logs and cherrypicking every minute detail. And I do hope you find a group that more matches what you are looking for out of the game, whether it be raiding with friends or hardcore progging (or both!).
That being said, I did what you don't like (I'm sorry) and looked through your logs, and I just cannot see a scenario where you'd be straining your co-healer. You definitely pick up the healing slack where needed, and I see nothing out of the ordinary. You had every right to defend yourself the way you did. Keep your head up, man. It's impressive how far you've achieved, all things considered.
Why would you even try to be in Rin's group in the first place? Also, that Dice dude is a shitty healer. Imagine healing when no damage is going out. What was he thinking?
Dice Arisugawa is well known on Crystal for being an abusive toxic piece of shit who leeches off cohealers who actually know how to heal ultimate lmao. Anyone who's healed with him in PF knows how bad he is at any healing job. If he isn't allowed to plant and only cast DPS spells, he's straight up useless. Sorry you got caught up in all that BS but you've dodged a bullet by getting kicked tbh
nice content, keep it up i cant wait for next upload
best of luck in your future groups!!
Get gud
Well you said it yourself, it's better to play with friends. It really sucks to be kicked out especially over something unfair like this, but this is just how it is, find better players to play with.
My suggestion to you is to try to be a bit more assertive in the future, don't just cave in when you feel like you're being gaslit into thinking you're in the wrong. Don't put people who say they've played this game for years on pedestal, especially that applies to content creators, it means nothing. Have some self-worth, I know it sucks but it happens, doesn't mean you should blame yourself.
Truth is, HC raiding is filled with people with huge ego issues, which makes communication hard. It's so easy to offend someone by trying to point out mistakes and yes expect your logs to be picked apart in response. An experience like this just means you've stumbled upon the wrong group, try a new one, make contacts with people you especially enjoyed raiding with and with time you can assemble your own group that does HC hours but where you can talk about issues without causing drama.
Best of luck and don't let small setbacks like this hinder your love for raiding.
bro this video is too dam long god dam
She probably just compared her logs to yours and came to the conclusion that you were not worth listening to. Which would not surprise me since all of this happened in two days meaning that she never actually gave you a chance. Anyways, it just shows a certain level of narcissism that I don't even want to be close to personally.
Don't let it discourage you from doing more HC raiding, we both know that there are good groups that would love to have you. Also, the static leader decided to keep the healer with trash tier communication skills & ego the size of nidhogg's nut sack so they're most likely gonna have even more problems like this one coming their way.
Keep your head up brother and don't let these people bring you down.
for a healer who cares so much about logs, they have a suspicious lack of healer logged kills in DSR, tryna talk about optimal healer playstyle in a current content ult
getting kicked from this group was a favor
Dice and Rin are well known toxic shitters in the high end community
Dice is a terrible player, they live in their own world when they're doing whatever it is they're doing so I wouldn't let it get it in your head.
bros really need that perfect parse to show off to the bots in chat, thats absolutely wild. I didn't even know "active uptime" was a thing, people really be making up dumb ass behaviors and terms to justify their parse numbers.
wat does this have to do with being a new/learning player and elitism/ableism btw this is just 2 healers babyraging at each other 4head
I'm just saying, this shit ain't a surprise to anybody who's followed literally any of Rin's progs. It's always something.
It's wild to me that people STILL give Rin the benefit of the doubt after literal years of him being toxic behind the scenes
Hey, I'm sorry you went through this type of experience. I don't know if I speak from a position of privilege, but what you went through definitely does not sound like a normal functioning hardcore prog group: I promise it's not a constant revolving door with people inspecting your logs and cherrypicking every minute detail. And I do hope you find a group that more matches what you are looking for out of the game, whether it be raiding with friends or hardcore progging (or both!).
That being said, I did what you don't like (I'm sorry) and looked through your logs, and I just cannot see a scenario where you'd be straining your co-healer. You definitely pick up the healing slack where needed, and I see nothing out of the ordinary. You had every right to defend yourself the way you did. Keep your head up, man. It's impressive how far you've achieved, all things considered.
wtf happened W~W
Why would you even try to be in Rin's group in the first place? Also, that Dice dude is a shitty healer. Imagine healing when no damage is going out. What was he thinking?